Comments on: I’m losing you and it’s effortless http://www.refineme.org/2008/01/18/im-losing-you-and-its-effortless/ Reflections of a grateful soul. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:55:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1 By: sneakerfr3ak http://www.refineme.org/2008/01/18/im-losing-you-and-its-effortless/#comment-43315 sneakerfr3ak Sat, 19 Jan 2008 18:14:13 +0000 http://www.refineme.org/2008/01/18/im-losing-you-and-its-effortless/#comment-43315 Is a friend still a friend even if you hardly talk to each other?>> in my case it does. i've recently met a friend of mine w/c i have not seen/talked/ym/email for what(4 years?). and when we talked its just like old times. but as you say a lot had happened. you may be in different cliques; have different interest now. she(guessing this is a girl) may feel a certain awkwardness you having not talked to for quite a while and does not know how to approach you even if you made the first move. or worse comes to worse she realized that she does not want to be part of your life anymore(pray it isn't so) but these things happen. they may be there for group/barkada gatherings every now and then but does not want/need to be part of your life. this i know because i was once may still be ;this kind of a friend(one who do not want to see old friends; even close/best friends.) just because for several reasons that i don't have the answer for. but you venting out such feelings is ok. you even need not feel guilty about this. at least you made the effort to communicate. but don't hate her for it. just be a good friend and try to understand. Is a friend still a friend even if you hardly talk to each other?>> in my case it does. i’ve recently met a friend of mine w/c i have not seen/talked/ym/email for what(4 years?). and when we talked its just like old times.

but as you say a lot had happened. you may be in different cliques; have different interest now.

she(guessing this is a girl) may feel a certain awkwardness you having not talked to for quite a while and does not know how to approach you even if you made the first move.

or worse comes to worse she realized that she does not want to be part of your life anymore(pray it isn’t so) but these things happen. they may be there for group/barkada gatherings every now and then but does not want/need to be part of your life. this i know because i was once may still be ;this kind of a friend(one who do not want to see old friends; even close/best friends.) just because for several reasons that i don’t have the answer for.

but you venting out such feelings is ok. you even need not feel guilty about this. at least you made the effort to communicate. but don’t hate her for it. just be a good friend and try to understand.

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